It's Summer - Jump Into The Dating Pool!

Looking to spice up your single life a little?, add some romance?... or maybe find that perfect love connection this summer? Cool! - jump in.

But wait, first let me help you avoid the ‘cold water’ shock. Whether you want to dip your toe or dive in all at once, remember, you should take time to prepare yourself BEFORE entering the pool. I want you swim not sink here. So, jot down these vital points

1. Get help.
This is of vital importance as it’s infinitely harder to reach goals solo. There will be days when you need encouragement.  So get a like-minded positive friend to help you or a personal mentor/coach.  Your success rate can only SKYROCKET when you do so.

Here are some things a great coach will help you address:

• Getting crystal clear about what you want and what you don’t want.
• Overcoming obstacles or issues that stand in the way of your success.
• Putting together a step-by-step action plan based on your comfort zone.
• Inspiring you, keeping you on track and lifting you up when you are low.
• Providing wisdom to help you get the best out of your dating experience and help you avoid unnecessary pitfalls.

2. There are plenty of fish.
Essential to finding someone to date is your attitude.  If you are coming from a place of lack; 'there's no one to meet', 'all the good ones are taken', then that's exactly what you'll find. REMEMBER - Like attracts Like.  The Law of Attraction suggests that single people can maximize the likelihood of getting what they want in their lives by planting seeds for the future they want.

• Visualize what you want and feel it - experience the emotions as though the vision were REAL!
• Reinforce your positive thoughts and control and stop any negative thoughts.
• Be doubt-free.  All you need to do is expect it.  Act like you already have it.  Be grateful and always expect your desires.

This information has saved people I’ve worked with from wasting precious time with incompatible people, timewasters and bad dates! Following these points will greatly increase your chances of finding a wonderful new partner or friend who suits you in less time.  It may sound a bit technical, but nothing beats a little preparation.

I would love to hear your feedback and any questions you may have. 


Wishing you a warm dive… or a pleasant dip!